What matters to you the most? Sit with that question until you are satisfied with the answer. Don’t stop until you find it . When you do accept it. Do not compare yourself with anybody , ever.
Knowing yourself means accepting yourself.
You will probably find out that what really matters in life is pretty simple and that most things don’t really matter.
I like to keep thing simple and save myself from the senseless suffering and frustration coming from “sh*t that just doesn’t matter”.
So, if what matters to you is great that is awesome, if it’s not then work at it to make it better, whatever that means; a big change can be scary but if it’s the right one it will feel right.
The stuff that does not matter should not affect you and if it does you should let it go as soon as you can. See it for what it is and move on.
If we keep it simple we have more time to smell the roses, more time with each other , more time doing things we enjoy instead of being trapped in a mind that thinks everything is important !!!